It debilitates. It chains us to the past, chokes our ability to live fully in the present, and suppresses our hope for the future. It causes us to hide, to avoid. It tells us that we are the past — that we are and will always be what we did wrongfully in the past or what was done wrongfully to us. It tells us that we will never be more than the lie.
If you have ever felt those waves of guilt and remorse sweep over you — those feelings of regret and wishing you could take back those words, attitudes, or actions — then this is for you.
If you have felt like you will always be unloved, a failure, wounded, the person of your past, then this is for you.
“When we experience shame over our sin, our natural tendency is to hide from others. We shut people out of our lives, we avoid praying or Bible reading, and we cover up the evidence of our sin … We hide because we feel shame … Shame tells us to hide, but joy spills out in praise to God for His salvation.” (Glimpses of Grace)
How can we be free from shame?
What methods are we using to try to free ourselves from our feelings of guilt, shame, condemnation? Are we using self-justification, shifting blame to others, or wallowing in self-pity?
Here’s a powerful and insightful comment in regards to shame:
We will be free from the controlling effect of shame only when we are repenting of our efforts to cleanse ourselves and rejoicing in the saving blood of Christ instead. (Glimpses of Grace)
We often are not experiencing freedom from the past because we are looking to ourselves to cleanse and free ourselves. It’s like trying to use a dirty rag to clean another dirty cloth, or it’s like asking a blind person to describe to another blind person what they are seeing. These may not be the best analogies, but perhaps the point is made…
Jesus alone has the power to free us from our shame because He has the power to forgive sins, and He did that when He died on the cross. Sin was defeated at the cross.
Here’s the truth in regards to our sins and shameful past and guilt-ridden present:
- “By God’s grace, He is triumphant even over your hopelessness, cynicism, and doubt.” (Glimpses of Grace)
- “God in His grace invites us to be continually repenting of our sins and rejoicing in Christ’s provision of righteousness for us.” (Glimpses of Grace)
- “God’s commitment to save those who believe in Him is to His glory.” (Glimpses of Grace) Our sanctification is based on God’s commitment to His own infallible attributes — not our own inabilities to save ourselves. Our sanctification has always been God’s work of salvation and grace — not our own. He will be faithful to complete that which He started.
- “God will not hold sins against you that He has held onto His Son’s dying body on the cross.” (Glimpses of Grace
36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
Jesus’ death on the cross was sufficient to forgive you from your sins and to free you from the penalty of your sins. His death on the cross was the final payment for our sins.
When we carry the burden of shame, we live as though we are not completely forgiven.
When we live as though we are not completely forgiven, we live as though we do not believe that Jesus’ death on the cross didn’t just pay for the penalty of our sins but also frees us from the strongholds of sin in our lives today.
Jesus didn’t just come to save us for eternal life. He came to give us His new life today. He came to change our present and our future.
In order to be changed, you must believe the truth — that you are set free, that He did overcome, that the cross was enough, that His Holy Spirit living in you is enough (more than enough).
‘Do not call to mind the former things, or ponder things of the past. Behold, I will do something new.’ (Isa. 43:18-19). The Lord reminded me that He seeks to deliver me from the guilt of the past and move me toward the promise of the future. His goal is never to bring guilt and condemnation by continually reminding me of the my past sins but rather to bring healing and obedience by turning my attention to my future with Him. (Discerning The Voice Of God)
God doesn’t point out our sin to condemn us. God’s purpose in lovingly revealing our sin is to encourage us to acknowledge it and confess it so He can change us. The Enemy’s voice brings condemnation… The Holy Spirit brings conviction that always provides a road map out and away from a specific sin. His aim is to lovingly steer us in the direction of His grace.
He reveals our sins to lead us to repentance, but his revelation is buffered with the hope of His grace, love, and another chance. He has already undergone the punishment for our sin once and for all on the cross.” (Discerning The Voice Of God)
I love that quote:
“His aim is to lovingly steer us in the direction of His grace.“
Jesus’ forgiveness has never been based on your abilities or inabilities, your worthiness or unworthiness. His love and forgiveness is based on the perfection of His love, grace, and complete work of salvation.
The purpose of the voice of condemnation is to push you away from His presence — that which is the very source of your victory. The purpose of the voice of conviction is to press you into the face of Christ. (Bob Sorge — quote taken from Discerning The Voice Of God)
Wow! Let me repeat that last line…
“The purpose of the voice of conviction is to press you into the face of Christ.” (Bob Sorge — quote taken from Discerning The Voice Of God)
12 As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.
If you have asked Him for forgiveness, you are forgiven!
When God forgives you, He sets you free from that sin. Believe it!
What God says, is.
Here’s His final authority on the matter:
31 What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?
32 He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?
33 Who shall lay any thing to the charge of God’s elect? It is God that justifieth.
34 Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.
35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?
36 As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.
37 Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.