I am going to keep this simple because a lot of times that’s all we have time and energy for — simple instructions and simple ideas.
I wanted to share some quick ideas on how to show your kids that you love them.
What your kids care the most about is whether or not you love them. So just love them!
Here are some simple ideas on how to demonstrate your love:
First, always tell them.
Second, demonstrate it by giving an appropriate hug and kiss. For some kids, it might mean a back rub, tickle-time, or chasing them around like a dinosaur.
Discover your kids’ love languages, and use that knowledge to enhance their perceptions of your love.
At the end of last week, I decided to do a simple but fun activity that also used my knowledge of their love languages. I took a post-it-note and wrote a specific message on the note for each child. I then attached the notes to the undersides of their dinner plates.
The kids loved finding their notes and then carrying out the instructions on the individual notes. It was a simple but fun way to demonstrate to my kids that they are loved. The activity also taught the kids practically how they could also express love to one another. (I will post pictures of the notes so you get the idea…)
It’s important to let your kids know you love them, but expressing that doesn’t need to be complicated. Keep it simple but love them!